i havent written in the last months.
the pregnancy has kept me sick and lethargic.
i told myself i will survive this pregnancy.
your strength will help me overcome it.
i know this baby is a gift.
had it arrived any time last year,
i would not have gone to japan to see you.
this baby arrives right after your passing.
to me, its a sign of hope, of life, and of strength.
all of which you embodied.
and i will continue to carry on.
this week i contacted tatsuhiko.
i sent him a link to all your photos and videos on line.
i hesitated for months to send it or not.
i did not want to open his wound again.
quite frankly, i didnt want to open my wounds again.
in the last months, it has been so hard for me to see photos of you
though you were out of sight, you were never out of mind.
so i finally found the courage to message tatsuhiko.
i wanted him to see all the photos and all the videos.
through these memories, he would realize how much joy you were to me.
you brought me the greatest happiness in my darkest days.
i knew he would send a response to my message.
i waited with anxiety.
i knew this initial contact between he and i
will uncover alot of memories and pain for us both.
tatsuhiko's response arrived with my heartbreaking.
he told me he was okay.
he told me he talks to you everyday but you no longer talk back.
i couldnt get past his message without tears.
there is not a person who does not love you, eriko.
though you are gone, you left such a deep impression on everyone.
something about you that makes everyone want to fall in love with you,
and dance around your youthful vibe and aura.
you have been gone for over 3 months.
and still you cross my mind numerous times a day.
i can only imagine what it is like for tatsuhiko.
you will always be in my heart and prayers.
and i will always pray and hope tatsuhiko finds peace and strength.
i know thats what you want. for us all to live well.
i love you eriko.